On Blaming: An Entry to the Question of Values
VANN SPRUIELL, M.D.
This paper was first presented to a Symposium in Honor
of Hans Loewald, M.D., New Haven, CT, Oct. 17th, 1987. It was
published later under the present title in the Psychoanalytic Study
of the Child. 44:241-263, 1989. I became aware of Loewald's work in
the late 1960's, and corresponded with him during the succeeding decades
until shortly before his death. I admired him deeply for his writings,
and what I came to know of him personally. For me he was one of a handful
of psychoanalysts I've known who made truly great contributions to psychoanalysis
through their creativity. Loewald was an excellent scholar of Freud's work,
and as a consequence of his early training in philosophy with Heidegger,
he was at home in that world too. Later, when I came to know him in person
well enough, my personal affection clearly transcended that of an idealization
of a teacher or mentor.
He seemed to like the present paper, and asked me to visit
him to talk about it. I intended to, but, sadly, his health deteriorated
to the extent I did not get to see him. A month or so before his death,
he dictated a note to me complimenting me for referring to Alfred North
Whitehead in my 1990 Freud Lecture -- he said that Whitehead was a great
man who had been "unfairly consigned to oblivion."
This paper considers the complexities of attempting to apply psychoanalytic
insights to a contribution toward thinking about moral issues. I certainly
do not believe that psychoanalysis can generate a nondeistic theory of
morality on its own. Yet we cannot, should not, ignore the subject
-- for our own sake or for other disciplines: there is no other discipline
that looks upon moral issues from the viewpoint of depth psychology: development,
sublimation, blaming systems, responsibility systems, etc. But, as we know,
our own purview is limited. The other disciplines can't do without psychoanalysis
because currently there no rivals to it in its insights into the minds
of single individuals. And we can't do without them. But this contemporary
fallibility of ours (and theirs) is no justification to turn our backs
on the questions.
Therefore, this paper offers no answers -- but perhaps it raises questions.
One of them is the possibility that the word, morality, carries unsolvable,
contradictory, components hidden within itself. Assuming that there is
no thing, morality, perhaps we could think of varieties of motivations
that promote human beings living together, cooperating together, surviving
together -- or varieties of motivations that get in the way, that threaten
the glue that holds relationships together.
My other papers relating to these subjects are, 1987c: Crowd psychology
and ideology: A psychoanalytic view of the reciprocal effects of folk philosophies
and personal actions; 1990. Freud Lecture: "The Analytic Situation:
Sheltered Freedom;" 1993b, "The
word "just": an essay on resistance, words, and multiple meanings."
Psychoanalytic findings and theory . . . are prominently concerned with man as a moral being. . . it is the scope of psychoanalysis to consider human nature in the fullness of the individual's concrete existence.
Hans Loewald (1978, p. 5f.)
Humans -- at least those who have survived developmentally well enough
to reach "good-enough" levels of development -- have preferences
of their own, sometimes overwhelming ones. They have sets of realistic,
aesthetic and moral values which may be volatile or relatively stable,
depending upon changes (or lack of changes) in their inner states of mind
which are largely influenced by the dynamic unconsciousness. And reactions
to the external world are largely influenced what the individual more or
less "knows" on a conscious level but also by their "folk
philosophies" (VS 1987c, Crowd psychology: A psychoanalytic view of
the reciprocal effects of folk philosophies and personal actions). They
are also influenced by the ever-shifting dynamisms of that part
of the unconscious that is at least potentially phenomenal.
Values are everywhere in mental life. Sometimes they are manifested only
by their apparent or real absence: they are not apparent because they are
repressed, or not apparent because they are actually missing as a result
of aberrant development.
No general theory of morality can be worth anything if it ignores these
(and other) general truths about human beings. Outside of religious or
mystical faiths, there is no alternative to thinking about values at all
except in terms of their human origins and human meanings. At the same
time psychoanalysts now recognize the limitations of their purview. They
tread gingerly about matters having to do with values. They are cautious
because they depend on their ability as analysts to manifest a generally
"neutral" stance (if they can) toward their patients' values.
Freud (1933 [1932]). hoped to avoid attempts by psychoanalysts to identify
with a particular Weltanschauug, or "Folk Philosophy" -- precisely
because he recognized the power of those inner influences in all of us
that we do not understood consciously. In fact, we are not wise enough
to give our patients directions concerning their beliefs or what they should
do about them. We can, of course, identify contradictions and irrational
convictions in ourselves and in others; but we can only know people who
are like ourselves, who can allow themselves to be examined deeply. In
practice, this means we are bound by the limitations of our own culture
and cultures like ours. Anthropologists and sociologists can investigate
cultures unlike ours, at least to some extent. But altogether, collectively
we reliably comprehend only a fraction of the total number of cultures.
Any intellectual discipline makes fundamental assumptions to which
it holds. Simultaneously, it makes an effort to minimize the expression
by the analyst to his patient's personal values -- and not only in the
service of making as objectively valid empirical observations as we can.
To paraphrase Fenichel, the analyst tries to deal with irrational content
without becoming irrational himself.
Among all professionals, psychoanalysts are probably the most watchful
and self-reflective in their efforts to identify and correct the distorting
influences of prejudices and private beliefs, in themselves and in their
patients. Nevertheless, psychoanalysts cannot forget that their own values,
especially moral ones, are a large part of the very stuff of their own
and their patients' lives. If values are a major part of the "fullness
of the individual's concrete existence," then the investigation of
the analyst's and analysand's values can't be ignored. To ignore them would
be less "scientific," not more. To evade the subject would amount
to a travesty of science; nevertheless, to address the subject exposes
our own uncertainties.
Heinz Hartmann, whose theories in some respects were very different from
those of Loewald, summarized several of the most important of these issues
in Psychoanalysis and Moral Values ( 1960). Unfortunately, that
little book tends to be unfairly remembered merely as a cautionary homily
(Spruiell, 1989). It is much more. Hartmann discussed tendencies in people
to "agglutinate" their values, combining values which vary in
rationality. Values can seem to become "contagious." The
good can be seen simultaneously and contradictorily as the ideal
and as the average or mean. And not only psychoanalytic theory, but analytic
techniques themselves are sometimes misapplied as prescriptions of behavior
in the non-therapeutic world—with consequences which are sometimes ludicrous
and occasionally tragic.
Hartmann criticizes "health morality" and, like Freud, did not
believe that psychoanalysis can provide, by itself, a valid Weltanschaung
(the term I used above; because it is defined so variously, I prefer to
call this variously defined German word folk philosophy). He made
it clear, however, that psychoanalysis may have a role in understanding
how values are created, applied, how means, ends, and consequences are
assessed, and that potential psychoanalytic contributions might enrich
a rational ethical philosophy. And in this he is joined by Loewald.
Values have existence as immaterial entities. As such they are fit subjects
for scientific investigation (insofar as they can be investigated). Even
if there is no way currently available to do that, we do not wear blinders
and declare all nonscientific knowledge to be invalid. That said, we often
have to acknowledge what we call antinomies: for example, we cannot do
without a concept of personal intentionality on conscious and unconscious
levels, just as we cannot do without some version of scientific determinism.
If we want to think about blaming, all sorts of related interests will
arise: the psychological nature of valuations, validations, their retention
or replacement, stability, the depth and strength with which they are held,
how they can be compartmentalized within appropriate situations, how contradictions
and conflicts among them can be governed. And we may have to endure our
fallibility when we contemplate unanswerable questions about the generalizability
of value contents. Are they strictly relative in nature? Are they strictly
utilitarian? Some combination? Is it possible that there are social structures
in many or all cultures which are to some extent products of universal
moral interests? Even if we can't prove them, might there be some ways
the values of all human beings, insofar as they are developed, resemble
each other?
I am specifically concerned here with the moral spectrum, and leave to
the side all the other questions having to do with our relative abilities
to be realistic, how self-centered we should be, or aesthetic issues, or
the general influences of a social nature which have to do with blaming
and its alternatives. Yet, this essay, in honor of Hans Loewald, inevitably
reopens old questions and speculates about some possible answers. It is
important here to emphasize the obvious: my interests are my own. While
they have been enormously stimulated and influenced by Loewald's work,
they do not necessarily reflect all of his own formulations and proposed
solutions.
An examination of blaming, an almost ubiquitous and apparently simple human
phenomenon, is one way to approach the more general subject of morality.
Blaming is an operation which is expectable in early stages of life, and
is "normal" also in adults who live in traditional societies
which have fixed rules defining free will and evil. Among adults who have
had an opportunity to mature in post-traditional, relatively free societies,
however, blaming by adults is not necessarily "normal" at all,
except in some emergency situations. In any society, at least a few adults
replace blaming systems with responsibility systems.
I also use blame and blaming to illustrate questions of individual group
values and their organization and disorganization. My intention is to demonstrate
that psychoanalysis can play an essential part—but, again, only a part—in
the possible future construction of a non-deistic theory of values, a theory
which might have general validity rather than mere social serviceability—a
redefinition of the obvious.
Whether cultural diversity will forever prevent the construction of a general,
non-deistic theory of values, any approximation of one will have to base
itself on the realities of human beings, especially concerning the recognition
of the importance of their actual conscious and unconscious natures.
T0 BLAME: SOME POSSIBLE MEANINGS
Blaming: a commonplace human quality. Usually found obnoxious by
its targets, it is the designation of the source of evil. The evil agent
may be enemy, human or otherwise, even one's own self. The blamer assumes
his victim is malevolent and chooses to be bad. Blaming is a judgment
of deliberate evil. It imputes power to the blamed—not to speak of power
to the blamer as soothsayer: thus good authority to the blamer (who hopes
others will join the blame-group); thus evil authority to the accused.
Blame is an onus. It is an accusation. If your accusation blaming another
person gets communicated to the human target, it is apt to stir him up
in one way or another. If the blamed one accepts the charge, he may feel
guilt, or at least pretend so. If he rejects the stigma, he feels, consciously
or not, falsely accused, outraged, hurt, treated unfairly. He may try to
mollify his accuser. He may openly or furtively counterattack—by ejecting
the blame, returning it to its sender, smearing it on someone else. One
common tactic to dodge blame is to say, "It wasn't me, it was somebody
or something else. And whoever says it was me is a liar. He or she is evil,
to be blamed, not me."
Or the blame might be accepted. The blamed person may try to expiate his
wrongness; feel bad; accept punishment as his rightful due; support the
righteousness of his accuser.
An observer thinks about "blame" differently if he is external
to the field of observation than he does if he is within it. The observer
not only thinks differently but feels differently if he is in one way or
another involved as an active participant. In the early days of psychoanalysis
Freud assumed that he should come as close as possible to the ideal of
the scientist-investigator, to think "objectively," to set aside
his private, personal feelings, even to be like a surgeon operating, in
order to be most "objective." At the same time, Freud was certainly
aware that his most remarkable, daring, original discoveries were those
he made first within himself. It was his fate, he said to discover
truths about children's sexuality that "every nursemaid knows."
He was, of course, referring to his own (and everybody else's) "subjectivity."
Subjectivity, however, was not a respectable mode of thought for scientists
in his day -- and often even among today's scientists. It took a long time
to recognize that subjective thoughts and fantasies are inevitable. They
are inevitable even in the most "pure" techniques of scientific
investigations. Such ways of thinking can be denied but they can't be banished;
they exist whether we like it or not.
Actually, it took a long time for us to recognize that these forms of thought
were not harmful in themselves. They were "endopsychic" perceptions
of our own internal events, especially those literally of the body, of
the affective, emotional systems. Sometimes they speak more truly to us
than the best of scientific paraphernalia can. But -- not to idealize them
more than to idealize "objective" observations of the external
world -- the person is best off if it's as important to listen to the one
as to listen to the other. It's the integration of what one may perceive
about the external and the internal world that serves the person
best.
We need to be as "realistic" as we can about that which confronts
us inwardly and outwardly -- sometimes with more intensity in one direction,
sometimes less. It's important to be rational. At the same time we need
to hear (feel, acknowledge) our fantasies, our dreams -- sometimes more,
sometimes less. Metaphorically, we need to be realistic and listen as well
as we can to the matters confronting us -- sometime more, sometimes less.
We also need to listen to the language of our hearts, sometimes more, sometimes
less.
Because of the nature of our discipline, most psychoanalysts tend to think
"internally," subjectively, about a psychological event like
blaming. They still need to turn to the truths they know internally --
about themselves and their patients. If we want to explain motivations
abstractly we think of the simultaneous operation and compromises of the
great springs of human motivation, the manifold influences of the id; the
ego ideal and superego at all levels of development and regression; ego
operations and phenomena having to do with conceptions of one's own self
and of other people and relations with them; with control and modulations
systems; and with the final pathways to action, etc; apprehensions of the
external worlds in which the person lives which exert influences on him.
External perceptions are tucked into remembered contexts—the representations
of subjects and objects in action, who, if not strangers, share conventions
and beliefs about external realities.
Proscriptive rules in psychological systems set boundaries. They are usually more numerous and explicit, at least in relatively free societies, than the other category of rules, prescriptive rules. The latter define what must be done in various circumstances. In regard to particular actions, prescriptive rules abrogate freedom; in contrast, proscriptive rules define the limits of freedom. Prescriptive rules predominate in the hive and the herd; proscriptive rules predominate in groups of higher mammals, particularly humans, who have many options. (See my paper, 1993b, The rules and frames of the psychoanalytic situation). This classification of rules is for convenience. Of course, prescriptive and proscriptive rules cannot always be delineated. Many are arbitrary pairs; there are many regularities of behavior which can be identified either way; one statement for what must be done; an obverse statement for what cannot be.
Blame refers to particular acts of judgment in a field within a coherent
human system. If blame is consensually agreed by a group to be appropriate
and just, then it is one element of what is assumed "by everybody"
to be external reality. Such "external" versions of reality have
variable influences on "inner" constructions of reality. The
variables have to do with the relative strength of the external impingements
on the one hand, and the developmental maturity and autonomy of the individual's
intrapsychic operations on the other.
Even God can be and gets blamed. The stars. Uncanny influences. Governments.
But individual people are seen no less magically as evildoers. Parents
and children, spouses and siblings, authorities, peers and siblings, especially
psychoanalysts—all get blamed. Patterns of blaming may become deeply rooted
as a consequence of group influence (for example, if practically everybody
else in a given culture indulges in blaming), and as a consequence of the
structuring of character traits (which arise out of early identifications).
On the other hand, some people have character traits which make them appear incapable of blaming. If the incapacity to blame is actual, a fixed defensive stance rather than a transiently defensive denial, a very serious illness, is probable. The statement may become clearer in what follows in the "clinical example" of this paper. In any event, society often rewards both blame-seekers and blamers, regardless of whether they are individually pathological or not.
But among reasonably well-educated people in our culture, calculated blame is "known" to be irrational. To blame is to lose a more accurate view of a differentiated world and of the interactions of forces in causal networks within it. To blame is to retain or revert to childish modes, by definition, immaturely narcissistic modes—especially in relation to the aggressive aspects of babyish narcissism. There is a reversion to a psychic state of seeming oneness between self and other, like the actual or seeming lack of differentiation within the mother-infant unity or field. I believe that such regressions, if they do not become fixed, are at times adaptive (E. Kris, 1950).
To blame is not the same as the discovery of defects or inefficiencies within a causal network, or the discovery of faults or breaks in a system. To blame is magically to short-circuit the recognition of multiple determinants or actual defects in the system itself. To blame is a leap to "discover" simple causes which are thought to be acts of intentional evil. In the sense that psychoanalysis sees events as psychologically determined, the search for single sources of evil is absurd. But in the sense that psychoanalysis retains concepts of freedom of choice, then, of course, one can imagine choices by individuals which at least most people would regard as evil. Perhaps this apparent antinomy can be resolved if traditional concepts of morality itself can be rethought. Perhaps blaming systems can be replaced by responsibility systems.
At least in our culture, the acts of chronic blamers and blame-seekers are primarily motivated by defensive reactions, which are, in turn, aimed to suppress and contain imperative id and superego motivations. The result is a violation of inner integrity—and attempts to control behavior by mastery and repression rather than as a result of the buffering, interacting elements of a free mind. As pathological or immature as blame can appear when viewed rationally, it is evident that some consistent systems of blaming can be, and often are, stabilizing in given cultures. Such systems make up coherent patterns which, if discerned, help us determine where evil (the simple "cause") is, whom or what to blame, and what might be done about it. These patterns of blame are largely unconscious conventions which infiltrate all societies known to us. They may not be reasonable in themselves, but conventions help hold groups together.
But when these social systems of blaming break down—as they often
do in all parts of the world—and are not replaced by any other consistent
ordering devices, social authority breaks down too. Not only is society
put at risk, but so is the individual. An environment gone amok no longer
can support a person's shared folk philosophy (Spruiell, 1988), his largely
unconscious notions of practical reliability about what he calls external
reality or commonsense morality. The individual loses bare safety of orientation.
THE VIRGIN SPRING. SIN AND EXPIATION
Most people think of narcissistic traits in terms of sin. Ingmar Bergman's
movie, The Virgin Spring, based on an old Swedish legend, is relevant to
blame. A nubile and flirtatious adolescent girl, who simultaneously seems
uncannily beautiful and pure, is allowed to take offerings to a shrine
a day's walk through the medieval forest. Her stern father, patriarch of
the farm, worships the girl and his judgment is clouded by her charm. The
mother, also a slave, flutters before her pure and clean angel-product.
In the little world encased within the dour stockade, only a servant girl,
pregnant, is not consumed by the positive idealization of the child. Like
a dying sailor she drinks the urine of her own envy; in her bitter spite
she too is a slave.
The virgin, dressed in splendor, rides alone through the forest.
She is unaware that the servant, frightened by her own terrible, murderous
wishes, trails behind. Just before she latter catches up with the girl,
the young pilgrim comes across three youths, goatherds, hungry, and homeless.
The oldest is a mute whose tongue had been cut out as punishment; the youngest
is a pubescent boy. Ugly, unattached except to each other, these goatherds
are like subhuman creatures to the childish girl, alien to anything she
has ever known. She is fascinated, romantically charmed by them, and stops
to share her food. Her patronizing Christian ministrations are first accepted,
then interrupted by a sudden recognition of danger, evil. She is trapped,
held by one of the young men, brutally raped, by the tongueless one. The
boy, transfixed, watches. The servant, hiding in the bushes above, watching
also, is perversely thrilled. Suddenly, in the thrall of the rape, ecstasy
transfigures the child-woman's face. Afterwards, stunned, she weeps—then
stares, unbelieving and believing, as one of the young men begins to club
her to death.
The young boy's fixed stare is broken. Left for a time by his brothers,
he tries ineffectually to cover the girl's body. Then he tries to eat a
bite of her bread. He vomits. The serving girl's posture of thrill turns
to shudders.
Later, the wanderers find shelter in the family farm. There is no
sign that they know or bother to wonder if it might be the girl's home.
They are taken in and fed. But during the night the young man who can speak
offers to sell the mother an elaborately sewn shift. To his blandishments
she is silent; she sees that the shift had been the virgin's. Later she
finds the rest of the bloody belongings and lets the father-husband know.
He prepares himself. His measured, vengeant butchery of the grown brothers,
followed by the lifting of the whole body of the young boy and smashing
it like a club, like a sack, against the wall is almost unbearable to watch.
When the father is finished, a passing expression of prideful pleasure
crosses his face.
The family and servants make a processional to the awful site of
the daughter's death. The blame clearly falls upon each—including the angel-child-woman.
Blame and remorse are accepted by each of the living. As they pray, a virgin
spring wells up from the spot where she had rested. The father vows to
build a shrine there. Undone authority is restored; God's place is fixed.
The audience can see that if there is blame, there is a nexus of blame.
If there is blame, each is to blame. Anyone of them, including the virgin,
could have prevented the crime if only there had not been the selfish concerns,
sinful in the legend, narcissistic to us: the idealized enthrallment and
barely hidden possessiveness of the parents—in the father so clearly and
intolerably erotic; in the mother, beneath surface doting, so hateful;
corrosive envy and spite in the servant girl; the perverse lust for both
sexes coupled with murderousness in the two goatherds, with their blindness
for people, sight for things; the boy at puberty, in a roar of impulses
and fears, shaking with unbearable wishes which have to be vomited; to
be them all: the innocent, the rapist, the murderer, the avenger of hunger—and
he who is raped and killed; the virgin girl herself, who embodied the special,
stupid vanity of the omnipotent and totally indulged beginner in genitality.
But at least the characters in the legend had the certainties of
faith, the knowledge of sin and how to find it, the belief in expiation
and forgiveness. At least their system of blaming
was consistent, coherent, and believable It is not so simple for us.
NORMAL AND PATHOLOGICAL ASSESSMENT: INDIVIDUALS AND GROUPS
Blame can be as insignificant as a passing sniff, as palpable as
a black oven awaiting its spark. Blamers are all of us sometimes. And blamers
are the inquisitors, the great and mad leaders of history. Blamers are
people harassed by emergency circumstance. They may be hostile and guilty
obsessionals. They may be injustice collectors or other kinds of angry
narcissists. In particular, blamers are among the unhappy souls with congenital
defects or bodily deformities. They are the oppressed and easily identifiable
minority groups. Blamers may have any diagnosis.
In our society, the most common forms of obviously distorted blaming are
found among sadomasochistic, paranoid, and depressed people, people whose
childish catastrophic fantasies were stimulated, at least, by external
reality, and seem to continue to be confirmed by it. They live lives in
terms of being able to blame themselves or others. Worse still, they surrender
to temporary or permanent helplessness, irrationally incapable of blaming.
These are people, the strong and the weak, obsessed by questions of who
has the power, and what is its quality—from the overwhelmingly catastrophic
and magical to ordinary blackmail operations within a family. They believe
they are internally possessed by mindless systems of monstrous goodness
or by other systems between or among themselves and other people which
are implacable.
The subject of blaming is too broad, blaming too widespread, to be identified with specific diagnostic categories or characterological types. But it is useful to explore ways of thinking about the various phenomena herded together under the term. Then we wind a path from the rational, to the infantile, and thus to the narcissistic. At all levels we can see that the act of blaming is the servant of many masters, many motivations which may conflict and must somehow be compromised and interdigitated.
We need the bridge uniting intrapsychic psychology (made up of the
influences and integrations and compromises of these four sources of motivations),
and a compatible interactional psychology (Spruiell, 1983b, The rules and
frames of the psychoanalytic situation.). The usual approach is to postulate
two psychologies, one intrapsychic, seen heuristically as a closed system;
the other a compatible group or interactional psychology, made up of multiple
closed systems which communicate, negotiate, battle, and cooperate across
space. In this view, the individual and his group are like figure to ground,
or ground to figure. The aim of development is thought to be to distinguish
self from object.
And there is another approach: that individuals are only apparently as
separate as their bodies seem to be, that psychological worlds are made
up of fields of forces in which only more or less differentiated centers
of organization exist. It is only the external observer who sees them as
individual people, separated by empty space, communicating across it by
signals. I do not know how to do without both views – intrapsychic-interpersonal
psychology, and the unitary psychology toward which Freud leaned in his
later years. In this essay, I take this second heuristic point of view,
from the "inside," so to speak, and take into account the oscillations
between partial separations and partial returns to an original oneness
postulated by Hans Loewald (1971). In other words, here I take the second
point of view to be less illusory than the first. Ithas to do with simultaneous
life within the mind and lives among minds.
In truth, we can't delineate precisely what we mean by "individual"
or by "group," anymore than we can be precise about "intentionality"
or "freedom." We know in general what we mean, and in fact can't
function as analysts without drawing upon these meanings, simultaneously
evocative within us, vaguely understood among us. We can, however, recognize
that extreme versions of "individualism" and "socialization"
express philosophical assumptions which are in radical conflict with each
other in regard to responsibility, intentionality, and the nature of good
and evil.
THE PSYCHOANALYTIC CONTRIBUTION TO MORAL VALUES
Of the philosophers who attempted to construct nondeistic etyhical systems,
Aristotle and Kant made the most notable efforts. Each began by basing
his system on the realities, as he understood them, of the strengths and
limitations of actual human beings. A conception of mind is the most important
part of that nature.
It would be as absurd to demand that a human have magical mental powers
in order to be moral as it would be absurd to demand that he have sings
in order that he could fly. Unless we draw upon the chancy gods of our
magical unconscious wishes, we must, as Aristotle and Kant knew, draw upon
what is present in mortal bodies and minds. All aspects of mind
have to be taken into account, but for morality the most relevant discoveries
of psychoanalysis have to do with the existence of the dynamic unconscious,
the relationship of internalization processes to the acquisition of layers
of more and more highly organized psychic structures, the increasing complexity
of drive-object relations, and the acquisition of more and more complex
systems, all of these understandings are essential. No scientific discipline
has studied individual human beings as deeply as psychoanalysis. What it
has to offer has to do with insights into the nature of man—but not a complete
view of the values he wishes he could have.
It is true that values can be smuggled into analytic situations. Examples are the "healthy morality" which Hartmann ( 1960) warned about, the conception of "normality" as an ideal, and all sorts of subtle and gross infiltrations of prejudices, opinions, and even specific political dogmas. But the most serious contaminations of psychoanalysis with values which are in fact antianalytic have to do with evasions of the painful truths of life, particularly as they refer to the realities of regression, the continued effects of infantile sexuality, and the extent and persistence of aggressive destruction. All these distortions and more can subvert analytic work. That is why analysts pay such assiduous attention to them.
Among the manifestations of countertransference phenomena, psychoanalysts
can also become blamers—and can even succumb to accepting irrational blame
of themselves. Analysts in the past particularly blamed individual parents
of their patients, and it is a common observation that analysts tend to
blame each other for all sorts of things. To blame is not to analyze. To
analyze is to peer into seeming chaos and find connections and order—and
constraints to freedom of thought and affect. From the aspect of mind,
to analyze is to look at and finally begin to comprehend the network of
patterns and associations which underlie any particular act, whether physical,
verbal, fantasy, or dream. What a thrill it is to be able to do that! To
analyze is to try to see the interrelationships, and even the "nodal
points" in the associations (Freud, 1900; Loewald, 1971), the unexpected
intersections of lines of thought from differing modalities: past, present,
future; the worlds of transference, past intimacies, and contemporary external
life; experiences of being from immediate to the abstract; "outside
life"; blessings and curses of desire; ranges from rational to non-rational
to irrational.
Ultimately, to analyze is to seek (and to whatever extent possible, find)
one's own person as a whole, thus embrace the responsibility for the whole
person, what Freud meant by Gesamt-Ich. And it means the ferreting out
of what might be called pseudo-responsibility—the distortion implied when
a person purloins responsibilities which rightfully belong to others. True
responsibility for all psychic acts must come to be seen to reside more
and more "within" the person, despite the inevitable helplessness,
imperfections, faults, and deficits which also live in that place within
the field. It means to find whatever there is of conscious and unconscious
freedom of choice – or at least options for actions – and expand them if
possible. If it was the fate of psychoanalysis to demonstrate to man that
his ego is not master in his own house, it also is central to the psychoanalytic
endeavor that it expand whatever freedom there is: to make into ego where
id was. Psychoanalysis could not endure if it imagined analysands were
slaves or robots. But some other people could. We turn our eyes away from
the extent and persistence of aggressive destruction at our own risk. All
these distortions and more can subvert analytic work. That is why analysts
pay such assiduous attention to them.
Among the manifestations of countertransference phenomena, psychoanalysts can also become blamers—and can even accept irrational blame of themselves. Analysts in the past particularly blamed individual parents, and it is a common observation that analysts tend to blame each other for all sorts of things. To blame is not to analyze. To analyze is to peer into seeming chaos and find connections and order— and constraints to freedom of thought and affect. From the aspect of mind, to analyze is to look at and finally begin to comprehend the network of associations which underlie any particular act, whether physical, verbal, fantasy, or dream. What a thrill it is to be able to do that! To analyze is to try to see the interrelationships, and even the "nodal points" in the associations (Freud, 1900; Loewald, 1971), the unexpected intersections of lines of thought from differing modalities: past, present, future; the worlds of transference, past intimacies, and contemporary external life; experiences of being from immediate to the abstract; "outside life"; blessings and curses of desire; ranges from rational to nonrational to irrational.
Ultimately, to analyze is to seek (and to whatever extent possible,
find) one's own person as a whole, thus embrace the responsibility for
the whole person, what Freud meant by Gesamt-lch. And it means the ferreting
out of what might be called pseudo-responsibility—the distortion implied
when a person purloins responsibilities which rightfully belong to others.
True responsibility for all psychic acts must come to be seen to reside
more and more "within" the person, despite the inevitable helplessness,
imperfections, faults, and deficits which also live in that place within
the field. It means to find whatever there is of conscious and unconscious
freedom of choice, and expand it as much as possible.
If it was the fate of psychoanalysis to demonstrate to man that his ego
was not master in its own house, it is also central to the psychoanalytic
endeavor that it expand whatever freedom there is: to make into ego where
id was. Psychoanalysis could not endure if it imagined analysands were
slaves or robots.
It is one of the tragedies of being human that what is demanded of
a mature person is the absolute maximum of responsibility for himself (even
for those matters within his purview in the face of which he feels helpless),
while recognizing that his actual rather than pretended freedom is more
constrained than had ever had been assumed in past times. It is only in
the area of that small portion of actual freedom—that portion which practicality
rather than philosophical proof forces us to assume—that one can rationally
speak of moral choice in the old, traditional way. Psychoanalysis has little
or nothing to say about good and evil in this sense because it is not able
to determine the relative extent of this freedom. It cannot measure it,
even in comparison to the other multiple determinants of psychic acts.
All it can say is that there is choice, and freedom is to be cherished.
It is always a temptation to think of morality in terms of one part of
the structural point of view of mind, the superego, which traffics in ideas
and feelings of good and evil. But it is obvious that any moral system
must take into account all the other structures of mind, all the other
motivations deriving from id, ego, and internal maps of the external world.
All is process—and even the superego is in a state of constant flux and
change. To illustrate, individual superego maturation—in relation to all
the other psychic elements—results in the gradual buffering (but not loss!)
of rigid, dogmatic generalizations, which apply at first to mother and
child, then to family, eventually to the outside social world. In the middle
of adolescence healthy superego maturation implies a structural revolution:
the harsh superego of latency is partly replaced by a more adult form of
the ego ideal.
Naturally, if this is to occur, it also depends upon object relations becoming
more clearly organized in terms of intimacy—just as these alterations of
object relations depend upon the alterations of drives and their modulations.
Superego maturation potentially even moves away from the supposedly pragmatic
necessities of the (mostly silent) rules defining conventional social relationships.
Individual ego and superego maturation may reach a point at which the individual
can make choices among prevailing social rules, or allow healthy hypocrisy
in relation to them, or, if necessary, allow outright defiance.
Thus, the maturing individual acquires more choices. Put another way, there
is less dependence upon automatic, infantile, simple, and categorical rules—particularly
those rules which are socially prescriptive (how a person is supposed to
do things just so) rather than socially proscriptive (the boundary-setting
limits of permissible behavior). Yet if maturity is genuine, not the pseudomaturity
of hyperrationality, the factors leading to unconscious and conscious choice
remain accessible to and interdigitated with all the preceding layers of
one's psychic being, and all the layers of a person's sense of separateness
and oneness.
Psychoanalysis, even though it cannot exist without humane values, rationality, and a belief in freedom, cannot provide the content of a moral system. But it can encourage human endeavors which are apt to facilitate humane and constructive moral development. And, in the other direction, psychoanalysis certainly can play a part in informing others of practices of child rearing which are harmful. It can play a part in documenting those social conditions which are apt to contribute to eventual acts of cruelty and destructiveness.
In particular, psychoanalysis demonstrates the limitations of "will power" as it pertains to inner life. At the same time, it demonstrates—as everyone who experienced a successful therapeutic analysis knows—that inner change is indeed possible and at least partially understandable. It did not take analysts long to understand that they could not "make" their patients "grow up," nor could they correct or extirpate pathological elements. They learned that infantile wishes never disappear. They are not simply "given up." Instead, if all goes well, they remain conscious and accessible, but are overlain and buffered and even infiltrated by other fantasies, including the restoration to the wholeness of life of previously suppressed and repressed impulses and fantasies along with the acquisition of more elaborate and complex and mature new versions.
The resulting integration of the "lowest" and the "highest" can save the individual from the aridity of empty intellectualizations to the one side and the sumps of adult infantilism on the other hand. Instead of "helping" analysands in traditional styles of "help," analysts can provide an amazing situation, like no other, in which it is safe for the analysand to discover himself and accept his own responsibilities and thus integrity—without blame, and eventually, for the most part, without shame.
In the past, it was supposed that the results of successful ordinary
development (and the results of successful analyses) would result in reaching
the stage of "genitality," which succeeded the dissolution of
the oedipus complex and should allow the individual to both love sexually
and work successfully as an adult. Genitality is hardly mentioned in the
contemporary literature, partly because few, if any psychoanalysts now
believe the oedipus complex is ever "dissolved," and partly because
there are such enormous differences between postoedipal children, early
and late adolescents, and adults of various ages, chronological and psychological.
Another reason for the lack of popularity of the term is that "genitality"
can be confused with phallic narcissism, mixed up with questions of gender,
and misinterpreted reductionistically. Nevertheless, there is a metaphorical
advantage to the use of "genitality," just as there was a metaphorical
advantage to insist that the Freudian conception of sexuality should include
experiences which many would have preferred to call "sensual."
Genitality is not merely established, it evolves. An adult stage of genitality
evolving ultimately toward death is the fate of lucky men and women. The
same state of evolving maturity is alluded to by some (but not all) cults
of phallicism, found in cultures about the world, and referring to the
celebration of male and female sexuality, fertility, generativity—and usually
in a disguised way, to death. The evolution of genitality (or Eros and
death) implies the evolution of responsibility. The rules governing responsibility
are highlighted by the very celebrations and fiestas which allow them to
be broken in circumscribed ways. The Dionysian symbol Phallos is a representation
of these collective agreements, but needs to be sharply distinguished from
the more "penis-oriented" immaturity known as phallicism (in
the everyday sense) and phallic narcissism.
In the celebration of maturity is the loss, temporarily, of aloneness of parts of the mind from the whole and the loss of separateness from other people. One might say it is the grief of maturity to recognize our essential aloneness and incapacity to fully integrate our parts. Our health lies in the ability to oscillate between these states—to some extent according to our own volition. Our illnesses lie in the fixations in one place or another. The capacity to reach temporary experiences of wholeness—and to separate again—is an important way to distinguish what might be thought of as genuinely normal maturation from pseudomaturations in which the earlier stages of development seem to be lost from experience and no longer are interdigitated with all the other levels in undisguised ways.
"To own up to our own history, to be responsible for our unconscious
. . . means to bring unconscious forms of experiencing into the context
and onto the level of the more mature, more lucid life of the adult mind.
Our drives, our basic needs, in such transformation, are not relinquished,
nor are traumatic and distorting childhood experiences made conscious in
order to be deplored and undone—even if that were possible. They are part
of the stuff our lives are made of. What is possible is to engage in the
task of actively reorganizing, reworking, creatively transforming those
early experiences."
[Loewald, 1978, p. 21].
The successful living by a whole person, waxing and waning, implies that a reliable inner sense of authority has been established within—and allowed to wane in the father in favor of its waxing in the sons. If humane and reliable superego functions are internalized and subsequently modified in the direction of rationality, more autonomy and freedom can exist for the individual; there is less dependence on controls from the environment. There is more to be had from life.
I am sure that psychoanalysts will differ in regard to this or that aspect of general maturation, but not about its fundamental nature. For me, it is a perspective which is central not only to psychoanalytic theory but to human morality. Whatever facilitates growth toward states in which more and more choices are available for the individual—and from which the individual is capable of selecting—by definition furthers the possibility that constructive as opposed to destructive choices will be made in the course of ordinary life.
The question of sublimation is another matter. Dale Boesky (1986)
has written an incisive survey of the many contradictory usages of the
term sublimation. His "Questions about Sublimation" should demonstrate
to any reader just how complex "sublimation" is—and yet how persistent
the need for its use. Sublimation has been used as simply another "defense
mechanism" and as something "higher" and "more normal"
than a defense mechanism. It has been used in terms of one form of Freud's
concepts of drives and in terms of other analysts' concepts of drives,
e.g., those of Loewald, which Boesky believes are incompatible with Freud's
meanings. Sublimation has been used as practically synonymous with the
"neutralization" of sexual and aggressive drives and as somehow
a different process. And it has been used by some as the extreme expression
of individuation and by others as a creative—not a neurotic—return to the
original wholeness characterized by the mother-infant unity. Boesky particularly
criticizes Loewald's use of sublimation in this sense because he believes
such a use does not adequately distinguish it from normal development.
The criticisms of Loewald's use of sublimation are debatable and important,
because they relate to central theoretical conceptions of the nature of
reality—in particular, nonmaterial reality. But I cannot do justice to
the debate here. My concern is limited to blaming and responsibility systems
as they refer to the question of values.
Occasionally we observe dramatic changes within an analysis which do not
seem to represent the undoing of a chronic regression, or the achievement
of some new level of normal organization, but rather a new capacity
to invest emotionally and less narcissistically in another person or an
activity. It is probable that there are more such happenings than we recognize.
I am referring to changes which we are inclined to label as sublimation.
In my experience, there are regular elements in these processes, although
they do not necessarily take place in the order I shall list: an older
sexual-aggressive organization, including more or less fixed motivational
elements and systems of resolution, becomes disrupted; a period of disorganization
supervenes; there are evidences of transitory regressions, which besides
having obvious defensive uses may contain extraordinarily rich, evocative
images or fantasies which are more like primary than secondary process
mentation; the individual appears to be much more self-preoccupied; erotic
and aggressive fantasies may temporarily seem much more "narcissistic"—in
fact, contain more perverse qualities which seem to have little to do with
other people as actual persons at all; at these times, everything in life
seems to be put aside, in particular many of the ordinary, restraining,
proscriptive and prescriptive rules governing behavior; there may be much
more anxiety and restlessness; and then, quite often, there is a sudden
resolution—a "surprise," a "Eureka," or an "all
the pieces fit together" experience. There is almost always a feeling
of pleasure; sometimes there is a feeling of awe; there is almost always
at least a feeling of wholeness.
While the new acquisition is intensely felt, it seems to have nothing
directly to do with sexual or aggressive elements—although it can be utilized
indirectly for purposes of derivatives. And while the sublimatory experience
can certainly be drawn into defensive operations, as anything human can
be, defensive uses do not appear to be primary. But it is not "neutral"
either.
These states often oscillate with more mundane neurotic (or perverse, or
psychotic) ways of being. Finally, we know that during the extremes of
sublimatory triumphs, the individual—whether involved in good or evil—is
apt to be involved in passionate states which transcend his own sense of
egoistic preoccupations; he is apt to feel at one with a larger collective,
or even that he is that larger body.
This process is certainly like that in creative acts, and it is easy to see how the regressions, disorganizations, and access to infantile levels of drive derivatives provide opportunities to observe the "nodal points" described by Freud when patterns of association from different levels intersect. I think many major creative acts are sublimations, but sublimations are not necessarily artistic or scientific acts. And the process is certainly like that which precedes major new insights in analysis—and major new insights often are sublimations. Probably the process occurs in a variety of special situations in ordinary life.
We can be certain of no one-to-one correlation between evil sublimatory states and what we regard as "good" and "constructive acts." Fiendish destruction can come out of complex states which cannot be distinguished qualitatively in terms of their elements from those that result in the greatest gifts to mankind. We know too little about the distinctions. We believe, however, that maturational developments broadly distributed among the functions of the psyche—cognitive, affective, drive-related, object-related—are more apt to lead to constructive and compassionate actions than monstrously dehumanized actions, which are apt to be related to perverse or psychotic fixations.
Sublimation seems to Loewald (1981) to take part in a a form of nonmaterial inner reality, "psychic reality" itself. But while Freud was considering psychic reality, he remained devoted to scientific materialism. It is still impossible to demonstrate, as opposed to postulate, close causal connections between psychic reality and the brain. Much of the difficulty with the concept of sublimation has to do with just this question: if material reality is seen as the only authentic reality, sublimation must be seen only in terms of illusions which are inherently false.
The concept of sublimation, in Loewald's words (1988),is "at
once privileged and suspect": privileged in
the nearly universal view of man as uniquely valuable; suspect in terms
of the scientific need to analyze man's development impartially as a resultant
of more primary (and allegedly more "real") components.
Sublimation in this sense is not a "mystical" or "oceanic"
experience, not a state of mental life with distinct boundaries, not one
to be conjured up by specific exercises or "mantes." It may or
may not seem to be limited by specific periods of time. It may or may not
be associated with the creation of any external product. Yet, it is a recognizable
state of mind, and with it goes a unique, unmistakable experience of meaning
and integration—one which has been described many times by many observers
in many cultures. Yet it is one which cannot be described in words very
well. It is better known through some experiences in solitude, in intimate
relations, and in communion with art.
I agree with Loewald (1981, 1988) that there are qualitative differences
between genuine sublimations ("passion transformed") and what
might be called pseudosublimations (primarily the results of unconscious
defensive reactions to intense infantile wishes, which often happen to
be rewarded by the world).
It is morally valid to favor and encourage states of life which make true individuation and sublimation more possible, more likely. To provide only one example of what I mean: individuation-deindividuation processes and sublimation are more possible in societies in which there is freedom of thought and expression and less likely in authoritarian societies.
It should be noted that the concept of sublimation used here is the very antithesis to regressive processes of desublimation—like blaming.
In summary, the fundamental theories of psychoanalysis, having to do with the most important aspects of man's nature, must play a contextual part in any rational moral theory. The understandings of human individuation and deindividuation, together with a particular view of sublimation, should play an important part in future general theories of morality.
A JOURNEY INTO GROUP PSYCHOLOGY
It is dangerous for psychoanalysts to venture away from their own
stockades in the wilderness, which seem cheerless to outsiders, but rich
with warmth and sadness for those inside. We know things about the clinical
practice of analysis and we have an admirable and useful theory of intrapsychic
life. But few of us are more than amateurs in other fields: philosophy,
folk philosophy, anthropology, sociology, mythology, physics, or the neural
sciences. The danger of excursions into these woods is that they will become
flights; they might make too much of what is apt to be a small fund of
knowledge. But some risks are worth taking.
Patterns of blaming and the rules governing blaming which involve specific
values, standards, and ideals are usually acquired through identifications
with parents and other authorities, although individuals can also internalize
their own creative constructions. These patterns of blaming have to do
with ego functions (being "realistic") and superego prohibitory
and idealistic functions. There is another element in the acquisition of
values which is often ignored except in reference to adolescence: the enormous
needs children have to be like their peers, to be accepted by them, to
be at one with them, their brothers and sisters. From babyhood there is
an eagerness to know how to do things, how big kids act, what is the right
way and what is the wrong way, what is fair. The dialectic between conformity
and freedom continues through all but the earliest developmental levels.
Most if not all moral restraints, or their lack, and dull or shining ideals
(no matter how well internalized) depend upon regular reinforcements from
the outside world's versions of social reality—and prescriptions and proscriptions
of behavior embedded within these versions. Traditions, conventions, standards,
principles, values—all can be usefully examined by the utilization of formal
rule theory (Spruiell, 1983, The rules and frames of the analytic situation).
Rule theory can supplement the insights of Freud ( 1921) into group psychology,
for example, the embodiment of shared values by a leader.
Shared values provide the binding which holds small and large groups together (VS, 1988, The indivisibility of Freudian object relations and drive theories). But compliance may be only superficial. There may be inner freedoms held tenaciously. Deeply held private values, which have been truly internalized and are at least somewhat independent of the external contemporary group, may persist as banked fires, with potential to flame forth as agents of change.
In our own past, most of the masses—Protestants, Catholics, Jews, and the irreligious—were overtly in general agreement about good and evil. This was because there was a public consensus claimed about the material and moral world—a folk philosophy, expressed consciously in religion and patriotism. It varied slightly in content from place to place, and of course there were different levels of sophistication from class to class. The folk philosophy was supported by authority (probably cynically by most individual leaders). A socially useful hypocrisy prevailed. Those followers and leaders who did not seem to accept "self-evident" rights and wrongs were apt to be branded outlaws and fit subjects for torture. The masses could be suppressed; old leaders could be overthrown by new ones with more plausible pretenses. Not so many of ficial laws were needed to define evil because covert and overt common rules defined it without an appeal process. This is no longer true.
For all the dangers posed by the disorganization of social rule systems,
such as the state of blaming, there are certain advantages. Our present
world allows for an unprecedented amount of freedom in "inner reality,"
available to an unprecedented number of people. On a mass scale, too, it
may be that sublimation can exist.
A RETURN TO DIRECT PSYCHOANALYTIC OBSERVATIONS
For all the worries (and promises) about our condition, and for all the
arguments that blaming is an absurd, unreasonable, and inappropriate activity
when applied to the world at large, the psychoanalyst needs to touch base
with clinical experience. From that position it is evident that, for practical
psychological purposes, blaming will always be with us as subjective phenomena,
invoked in emergencies and in our most immediate relationships. If an adolescent
pokes a gun in my ribs on Conti Street in New Orleans, I certainly will
blame him. I will not care in the least about his motives, or his unfortunate
past. At that moment I will not even care about him as a human being. Only
if he were neutralized, no immediate threat, could I afford to be more
objective, conceivably even compassionate. Nevertheless, my regression
to blaming, provided it was temporary, would have been immediately adaptive.
A child cannot be expected to have any objective understanding of the disparate realistic or neurotic reasons behind his mistreatments, especially on the part of his parents. Only when the adult is able to overlay his childish self with more mature patterns of being—and thus to some extent transcend childhood, and to some extent re-contact his childhood on a higher level—will he be able to forgive his past, no longer blame his past as a way of escaping present responsibility.
These are all transformations of narcissism, from the viewpoint of the drives and from the viewpoint of object relations. Blaming, especially, has to do with aggressive actions, thus the omnipotent strand of narcissism. In the best of worlds, as development proceeds, the earliest omnipotence gives way to more and more elaborate alterations. The process moves from magic omnipotence, through the delegated omnipotence to authorities, to the boundlessness of adolescent fantasies, to true adult potency. Still, the certainties of at least temporary regressions are always there, in everybody. And some kinds of regression—perhaps to distinguish them from flights of terror we should call them inward historical pilgrimages—are necessary for a life to be whole and in process.
The origins of blame are in the sense of reproach the infant feels toward
his mother for whatever unpleasure he experiences. He can do this when
the mother becomes at least partially distinguished from himself. Blame
and blaming come into their own with the anal struggles between the ages
of 1 1/2 and 3—the period described by Mahler et al.
(1975) in terms of the rapprochement subphase of separation-individuation.
Thus the development of a capacity to blame is crucial. It is one signal
of the development of relations with others—and it is missing from those
horribly mistreated individuals described by Shengold (1979) as victims
of "soul murder" in childhood. These people as children were
quite unable to imagine blame, much less blame their cruel parents.
It is during the period just preceding and including the climax of the oedipal passions that blame and blaming mechanisms come to be internally codified. Taboos and ideals become specified and stratified in importance. There are strong pressures against behaving "babyishly" beyond one's time. On the other hand, major blame can become associated with trivial indiscretions because of links to incestuous and murderous taboos.
Blaming as a fantasy is one thing, blaming as an act is another. The former may become replaced by other fantasies, or the targets of blame might be shifted, or the fantasy become frozen as a character trait— perhaps a pattern of grudges. Pathological blaming is a chronic maneuver in the inner world involving disavowal, denial, isolation, and projection. But acts in the interactional "outside" world related to these fantasies cause harm to other human beings. Childish acts of blame are hostile and often sadistic, indulged in by children and adults who are terrified of the consequences of forbidden wishes and of real or fantastic punishments, sadistically eager to divert these consequences to others. They are acts particularly seen among siblings in competition for the love of authoritarian parents, and in competition to avoid censure by the same authorities.
Typically, the blamer tries to recruit others to identify a victim. A successful group of blamers can become a group of persecutors, even a fundamental part of the actual external world of the targeted person or group. To whatever tendencies already exist to neurotically accept blame, there may be additional needs to avoid acknowledgment of perceptions of evil in the external world; the result may be a dangerous paralysis of aggressive impulses, a self-destructive response wellknown to concentration camp victims and to some of the prisoners of war—for example, in the hideous prisons of both sides during the American Civil War.
PHILOSOPHICAL AND FOLK PHILOSOPHICAL CONSIDERATIONS
Bernard Williams ( 1985) has written a brilliant book about the current
state of nondeistic philosophical considerations of ethics. It summarizes
the profound but partially failed efforts of Aristotle and Kant, along
with contemporary philosophical efforts, documenting their limits. The
title, Ethics, is perhaps not as important as the subtitle, Limits
of Philosophy. Williams too characterizes blame, the location of deliberately
evil actions, as a central type of negative ethical reaction in response
to the conduct of others. He too believes blame springs "from a deeply
rooted misconception of life." But philosophy, he admits modestly,
can play only a part in correcting those misconceptions.
Systems of blaming are supported by the rules of the dominant folk philosophies
of a society. They are affected little, if at all, by the careful thoughts
of philosophers and theologians, much less by the essays of psychoanalysts.
Williams admires the moral systems of Aristotle and Kant, but cannot totally
accept their metapsychological assumptions. He does not mention Whitehead
(1929), who developed the only twentieth-century extensive morality embedded
in a new metaphysics, with its emphasis on process and spiraling increases
in organization of systems.
Is there hope for a more rational folk philosophy? An ethical mechanism
to replace blaming? I believe there may be grounds for such hopes, but
I am aware of the distinction between "my" moral beliefs and
what might be "ours." In any event, it would be a terrible misconception
to rely only on man's "highest" levels of rationality, and utilize
them to deny what psychoanalysts know more about than anyone else; what
seems to be the "lowest" in man may also be the language of the
heart. It is only when the language of the intellect is married to the
language of the heart that authentic reason— the God-child, Logos—comes
into being.
SUMMARY
In this paper I have considered acts of blaming as an approach to a psychoanalytic contribution to a theory of moral values—a search for a way of thinking about the mental processes mediating values and valuations. Many modern philosophers do not believe their own discipline will be able to develop complete, valid, acceptable, and workable nondeistic ethical understandings alone. Psychoanalysts cannot either, but psychoanalysis can contribute necessary components in its unique understandings of mental operations.
The study of blaming as a part of a larger system of values can also be an avenue to the study of intrapsychic-interactional theoretical propositions. The stability or lack of stability of the "worlds" in which we live has influences on all of us, especially those who are most vulnerable to "external" influences.
Empirically, in addition to responses to immediate threats from the outside world, an internal world of blaming always remains. The self may be blamed for its failure to live up to its own standards and rules. Often this internal blaming and acceptance of the blame—thus guilt— operate unrealistically. Nevertheless, some such operations continue in even the most mature people, but in mature people it is possible to transform blaming systems into responsibility systems. Along with other transformations that accompany sublimations, the wholeness of personality can be restored in part.
One of the faces of a responsibility system is turned toward inner, passionate, often contradictory animal needs which remain in us all. Unless "owned," channeled, restrained, some wishes would be externally disastrous if converted directly into behavior and personally disastrous if totally repressed instead of channeled. Not only this, their disguised expressions can again become externally harmful to oneself and others when projected outward in the form of blame.
The other face is turned toward the ways the individuals' motives to join (or rejoin) the affairs of the collective "other"—some of which have to do with the most apparently transcendent qualities in man.
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